I have heard that many women don't use lubricants, for different reasons, but mainly because of not being educated or informed!
Many women are used to having sex just to please their partner, and that's it, they don't even enjoy it! It makes me sad to think the pain sometimes they must endure because of not properly lubricating. Sex is for connecting with your partner, reproduction, killing time, you name it, but the number one thing it shouldn't be, is painful!
There are many reasons why women may not naturally lube. It does not mean you are going through menopause before your time, if you are sure it's not your time just yet. And even if it is, then you definitely need lubricant. Not using lube can cause painful intercourse as mentioned. It can irritate your vagina leaving you in pain, reduce your sexual libido (since you will think it's going to hurt) and and of course you won't enjoy it! If you are planning to use a vaginal vibrator, lubrication is important to use your "Secret Friend". The toy dosen't lubricate, it most likely won't turn you on as easy as a person would, so, you got it, Lube with toys is important.
Sex, with a toy or a partner is for pleasure and enjoyment. This is what I tell my girls and women always, "Never, under any circustances, never do anything you don't want to do, you don't feel sexy doing it, or if you are not enjoying it". If sex hurts, then you seek help and find the reasons why, lubrication might be just the answer to that question.
You might feel weird or worried on why you might not be lubricating as you use to, or why don't you at all. It is very natural that vaginal dryness can happen when you are taking certain medicines such as antibiotics, allergy medication or even when you are "on-the-pill" for pregnacy prevention! Also because of pregnacy, childbirth, nursing, and the gracefully one and only STRESS! Which us, the women, know very well.
I want to emphasize once more, it is very important to use lubrication, and it can be fun too! If you are emberassed about it, don't be! You don't even you have to tell your partner you are using lubricant. Pure Romance "Just Like Me" Lubricant is water-based that feels JUST LIKE your natural moisture!
"Just Like Me" does come in flavors (such as fruit punch) and you might want to take advantage of that! Otherwise, this pH balanced, water-based lubricant comes also in Original. And remember, since it's a water-based lubricant its okay to use with latex condoms.
There are other types of lubricants, such as silicone, warming lubes, creamy based ones. You need to try them all to find the best one that suits you ;) .
There are other types of lubricants, such as silicone, warming lubes, creamy based ones. You need to try them all to find the best one that suits you ;) .
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